Intimacy – Attitude


For a while now, I have been working through Dr Caroline Leaf’s programme to detox your mind, and to build up healthy, God-honouring thoughts.  I am slowly, but surely seeing the dividends of the hard work that I am putting in, although I truly wish I was further along the road.  But, I guess, Rome… Continue reading Intimacy – Attitude

Intimacy – Letting go of Fear


You cannot love if you fear!  That’s my quote and I know it to be true. You cannot love if you fear! Cast away all fear so that you can love freely. @vw94 #lovefreely @BabyMamasTweet — The Baby Mama (@BabyMamasTweet) June 24, 2016 Fear causes you to run away, to want to protect yourself at… Continue reading Intimacy – Letting go of Fear

Intimacy – Never Giving Up


Galatians 6:9 New International Version (NIV) Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. I believe that in life, in our marriages, at work and at play, we are constantly sowing.  Whatever we are sowing, we will reap.  If you are… Continue reading Intimacy – Never Giving Up

Intimacy -being separate


On Marriage Kahlil Gibran You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God. But let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance… Continue reading Intimacy -being separate

Intimacy – Resting


We all go through seasons of life.  At the moment, hubby and I are going through the “raising a child, and battling to pay our bills” season.  And it is exhausting. Although, I have come to believe that pretty much all aspects of life is exhausting. Last night, I got into bed by 20:00, and… Continue reading Intimacy – Resting

Intimacy – a sacrament…


I had a really funny post planned about how if you’re truly intimate, you’d allow your spouse to read your blogs.  Ha, I must admit that would make me nervous.  Because the longest distance often is the journey between your head and your heart, often what I blog about I battle to put into practice.… Continue reading Intimacy – a sacrament…

Intimacy – those awkward moments


There are many awkward moments in marriage – don’t you agree?  You’re living and breathing and doing life with another person who gets to see you at your best (we hope), but also at your worst. Have you ever been so sick that you couldn’t care what you looked like, you just wanted to crawl… Continue reading Intimacy – those awkward moments