Intimacy – Honour


If I had $1 for every time my mother said to me, “I know he’s your father but…” and then proceeded to share with me very intimate details of their lives and their marriage and of my father to me, I’d be a very, very wealthy woman today. I first asked her to stop when… Continue reading Intimacy – Honour

A verse a day – for 40 days (Day 31)


Respect – “Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”  Eph. 5:33 Dear Lord, I ask that you forgive me and cleanse me of all unrighteousness.  Forgive me for any time I have not shown my husband respect, dismissed him, been rude to… Continue reading A verse a day – for 40 days (Day 31)

The 52 Week Challenge –Week 4


Ask. Seek. Knock.

The idea being an active pursuit to understand whatever it is you need to understand. That was last week’s post from Pearl from the Oyster Bed. And just after I wrote this post last week, I got what I think is a vision from God. God showed me a huge, wooden door. And on the other side of the door is everything my heart ever desired. A good, strong and healthy marriage with my man – fun, laughter, sexual intimacy, safety, a life lived full of abundance. But I was standing on the wrong side of the door. I knew that all that I wanted was waiting there for me, but I was too scared to go through. Something was holding me back – fear, ignorance, pride, arrogance. Whatever it was (or is) I could not bring myself to knock on the door and go through. And it was as if God was encouraging me to go through this door – His blessings are waiting there for me.