Intimacy – Time


First off, I have to say that this is my word for the year, and I am sharing with you my growth, my thoughts and my ideas.  I am not a counselor, a psychologist, or a marriage therapist.  If you learn and grow from something I have said, or an experience that I have been… Continue reading Intimacy – Time

A Lifelong Love


I have picked up a gem of a book – and I would highly recommend you buy this book (or beg, borrow or steal – okay, not steal… but read this book).

It has begun to dawn on me – in the far reaches of my brain, that perhaps, just maybe, sexual intimacy with your husband is way of honoring and worshiping God. And that thought is kind of, well, embarrassing to think. Using God and sex in the same sentence just somehow doesn’t gel. Whatever reasons you have for this – be it a conservative upbringing, incorrect church doctrine, gossip among friends that led you feel ashamed and embarrassed – we usually don’t talk about God and sex as a single topic. And even as I am typing this, I know that I am walking into a mine field – because I am new to this way of thinking, because I have so much to learn, so much growth to still happen, and I feel like I am so far from the ideal.