36 Things I Know After 36 Years of Marriage


Its been a long time since I have posted to this site – not for any other reason that I’ve enjoyed a break, some time with my family, and some time off work. In fact, my holiday was so good, I have battled to settle into the work space again – still blissfully wishing I was on holiday…

The 52 Week Challenge –Week 4


Ask. Seek. Knock.

The idea being an active pursuit to understand whatever it is you need to understand. That was last week’s post from Pearl from the Oyster Bed. And just after I wrote this post last week, I got what I think is a vision from God. God showed me a huge, wooden door. And on the other side of the door is everything my heart ever desired. A good, strong and healthy marriage with my man – fun, laughter, sexual intimacy, safety, a life lived full of abundance. But I was standing on the wrong side of the door. I knew that all that I wanted was waiting there for me, but I was too scared to go through. Something was holding me back – fear, ignorance, pride, arrogance. Whatever it was (or is) I could not bring myself to knock on the door and go through. And it was as if God was encouraging me to go through this door – His blessings are waiting there for me.

Day 26: for those who want to change their spouse


There is a story that goes like this: One day, a scorpion needed to cross a river.  And no matter how he tried, he could not find a way to cross to the other side.  After a while, a frog came across the scorpion’s path and the frog asked the scorpion, “where do you want… Continue reading Day 26: for those who want to change their spouse