Intimacy – Humility


Last night, I had a bit of a – what shall I call it – tiff with my mother-in-law.  It was something small, that escalated, and she came to me to apologise.  But, it has bugged me – you see, ever since the huge fight with hubby’s sister, the relationship between his mom and I… Continue reading Intimacy – Humility

Intimacy – Boxes


I like counting in fours. I have always have. Every time I walk somewhere, I count my steps on fours.  Seriaaasssly. Maybe I shouldn’t be admitting this on a public blog – my little “blog box”.  Uh, just how many followers do I have?  LOL – but I like fours.  I like the number four, I like… Continue reading Intimacy – Boxes

Intimacy – Acceptance


One of the biggest challenges to true intimacy – as I have discovered this last week – is a lack of acceptance. Not accepting your spouse for who they are Not accepting your circumstance, your “lot” in life, so to speak Not accepting who you are Psalm 16:5-7 NIV LORD, you alone are my portion and… Continue reading Intimacy – Acceptance

Intimacy – Attitude


For a while now, I have been working through Dr Caroline Leaf’s programme to detox your mind, and to build up healthy, God-honouring thoughts.  I am slowly, but surely seeing the dividends of the hard work that I am putting in, although I truly wish I was further along the road.  But, I guess, Rome… Continue reading Intimacy – Attitude

Intimacy – Feelings


Intimacy – Feelings (mine, yours, ours) Sometimes, I know that my husband doesn’t get me.  I will try explaining something to him and I can see by his expression or his response that I could very well be speaking Latin and he just doesn’t get me.  And by the very same token, there are many… Continue reading Intimacy – Feelings

Intimacy – Love Casts out Fear


1 John 4:18 NIV:  There is no fear in love.  But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment.  The one who fears is not made perfect in love. “The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” Intimacy – Love Casts out Fear https://t.co/YDA37ffNRF — The Baby Mama (@BabyMamasTweet) August 15,… Continue reading Intimacy – Love Casts out Fear

Intimacy – Cleaving


Matthew 19:5 KJV:  And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? I love the word “cleave” in this instance.  It really does give an onomatopoeic impression of holding on, and never letting go.  Although the verse doesn’t mention a wife… Continue reading Intimacy – Cleaving